The bronze pilgrim statues at Monte do Gozo gazing toward Santiago, my mom standing among them
🗓️ Completed · October 2018

Camino de Santiago

A surprise reunion on one of the world's oldest pilgrimages — then onward with Doug from Santiago to the Atlantic coast at Muxía and Finisterre, the "end of the world."

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End of the World

The Way of St. James

In October 2018, my mom set out on one of the oldest journeys in the world: the Camino de Santiago. The name means "the Way of St. James" — most pilgrims simply call it the Camino, "the Way." For more than a thousand years, walkers have followed its paths across Spain to the cathedral of Santiago de Compostela, in the green northwest region of Galicia, said to hold the remains of the apostle St. James. I didn't do that full pilgrimage myself — but her journey became the reason for mine.

My own trip came in three parts. It began with a few days in Madrid. Then came the heart of it: my mom was nearing the end of her own Camino, and Doug and I flew over to surprise her as she walked the final miles into Santiago. And once her pilgrimage was complete, the two of us set off on a short Camino of our own — west to the Atlantic at Muxía, then down the coast to Finisterre, the rugged cape that medieval pilgrims believed was the literal end of the world.

Skip ahead to either story

Part One · Jump to
🐚 The Surprise — Mom's Camino
Flying over to surprise my mom at the finish of her 500-mile pilgrimage into Santiago.
Part Two · Jump to
🌊 Our Camino — to the Coast
Doug and I walking on from Santiago to Muxía and Finisterre, the "end of the world."

🐚 About the Camino Francés

A little background on the route my mom walked — for anyone new to the Camino.

The Camino de Santiago isn't one path but a web of ancient pilgrim routes, all converging on the cathedral in Santiago de Compostela. The one my mom walked — the Camino Francés, or "French Way" — is the most famous of them. It runs roughly 500 miles (about 780 km) from Saint-Jean-Pied-de-Port, on the French side of the Pyrenees, up over the mountains and west across the whole top of Spain — through Pamplona, Logroño, Burgos, and León — before dropping into the green hills of Galicia and finishing at Santiago. Pilgrims have walked it for more than a thousand years; in the Middle Ages it stood alongside Rome and Jerusalem as one of Christianity's three great pilgrimages, and today the routes are a UNESCO World Heritage Site.

Everyone walking the Camino is called a pilgrimperegrino in Spanish — because the route began as a pilgrimage, a journey to a holy place. Here the destination is the tomb of the apostle St. James (Santiago in Spanish), believed to rest beneath the cathedral in Santiago de Compostela. For more than a thousand years people have set out on foot for faith, penance, or gratitude, and the name "pilgrim" stuck to anyone making the journey. Today people walk for all sorts of reasons — spiritual, personal, athletic, or simply the pull of the open road — but whatever draws you, the moment you start walking the Way, you're a pilgrim.

Walkers carry a credencial — a pilgrim's passport — and collect stamps at the towns, churches, and albergues (pilgrim hostels) along the way. Cover at least the final 100 kilometers on foot and you earn the Compostela, the certificate handed out in Santiago. The full French Way takes most people four to five weeks, and you'll spot it everywhere by its two symbols: the scallop shell and the yellow arrow.

If you'd like to get a feel for it, watch The Way (2010) — Emilio Estevez directed it, and his father, Martin Sheen, stars as an American father who walks the Camino Francés in honor of his son. It follows the same route my mom took, all the way to Santiago and on to the Atlantic coast, and it captures the spirit of the pilgrimage beautifully. It's a genuinely good film, and well worth a watch whether or not you ever lace up for the Camino yourself.


How It All Started

A Movie and a Talk

As it happens, The Way played a small part in how this whole trip came to be. In the fall of 2017, I had my parents over to watch it — not to nudge anyone toward a pilgrimage, just a good movie with a great story set in Europe. It did fit a loose little theme, though: around the same time, I'd invited my mom to a talk at our local REI given by a woman who'd walked the Camino several times.

"I'm Going to Do the Camino!"

My mom didn't say a word about wanting to do it herself — not after the movie, not after the talk. Then, a day or two later, the phone rang: "I'm going to do the Camino!" Really — that's freaking awesome, I told her. Hearing her so excited about it was a wonderful moment. It turned out she'd known about the Camino since earlier in her life; all of this had simply nudged her to finally act on it, and she set about planning her walk.

Hatching a Surprise

The reason was simple, and it mattered to me a great deal: I wanted to be there at the finish to congratulate her in person. I was so proud of her for setting out on a journey like this and seeing it all the way through — 500 miles on her own two feet. I knew how much the Camino meant to her, how long the idea had lived in her, and how much it would mean to have family there to share the moment she completed it.

Before she'd even left the US, I'd quietly decided I was going to meet her at the finish in Santiago. I let my wife and a couple of friends in on her plans and my idea to surprise her there. I didn't actually ask anyone to come along — it felt like too big an ask, with too many unknowns — but Doug, ever the one for a good adventure, eagerly wanted in. And just like that, our half of the plan came together. I was so sure she'd make it that I booked my flight before she ever set out.

Keeping it secret took some doing. Since none of us knew exactly which day my mom would reach Santiago, I had to play it coy — folding casual questions about her progress into our normal calls so I could time our arrival without giving anything away. I wanted to surprise my dad as much as my mom, so he was kept in the dark too — which got tricky the very weekend we left. My dad's sister was in town visiting Arizona, and while I'd seen her already during the visit, my dad called a few days later about joining them for dinner that Saturday night. I was already en route to Spain, so I begged off, said I was busy, and kept the secret. The plan started coming together during our layover in Minneapolis, where one more easygoing chat with my mom gave me her best guess at the day she'd walk into Santiago — enough for Doug and me to build our timing around, even if we wouldn't be able to lock in the exact day until we were on the ground in Spain.


Day by Day

The full story, as it happened, in two parts. Part One is the journey over and the surprise reunion at the finish of my mom's Camino. Part Two is the short Camino Doug and I walked on our own afterward — west from Santiago to the Atlantic coast. I'll add days here as I write them up.

Part One

Getting There & The Surprise

Getting there Day 1 Day 2 Day 3
✈️ Travel Day Sunday, October 14, 2018

Day 1 — Phoenix to Madrid

Phoenix → Minneapolis → Amsterdam → Madrid · a first afternoon in the city

An Overnight to Spain

Doug and I left Phoenix on an overnight flight, connecting through Minneapolis and then on to Amsterdam — our gateway into Europe before the final hop down to Spain.

A Layover in Amsterdam

Amsterdam handed us the trip's first two laughs. Going through customs, Doug and I happened to step up to the booths at the very same moment, in separate lines. Maybe it was the Dutch last name, but I was waved through in about 30 seconds flat — while Doug stood there for several long minutes. We still joke that the officers must have known something about him that warranted a closer look. Hmm.

The second laugh came courtesy of the stroopwafel. On the flight over I'd been telling Doug all about them — those thin, caramel-filled waffle cookies the Netherlands is famous for — since he'd never heard of one. Then we rounded a corner in the airport and walked straight into an enormous display of them. Perfect timing.

A large stroopwafel display in the Amsterdam airport
Right after I'd explained what a stroopwafel was, the Amsterdam airport served up this wall of them.

Into Madrid

We finally touched down in Madrid on Sunday, October 14th. From the airport, the Madrid Metro carried us almost to the door — dropping us within a few blocks of our Airbnb rental.

It was mid-afternoon by the time we'd settled in, and the jet lag was hitting hard. We gave in to a brief nap at first — but knowing the best way to beat the jet lag was to stay awake until a normal bedtime, we dragged ourselves back up, headed out, and walked the city for a while. Wandering Madrid on foot turned out to be the best antidote — a first taste of the plazas and the easy energy of the Spanish capital.

Doug and Mike on their first afternoon in Madrid
Doug and me out in Madrid on our first afternoon — exploring the area and, just as much, keeping ourselves awake to beat the jet lag.

A Plan Falls Into Place

Doug had floated the idea of booking a guided bike tour of Madrid — a fun way to cover more ground and pick up some history of the city along the way. As luck would have it, we walked right past a shop called Trixi bike rentals while we were out exploring. Doug stepped in, sorted out the details, and just like that the next morning's tour was planned.

Trixi bike rental shop on a Madrid street
Trixi bike rentals — we stumbled past it on foot and booked the next morning's guided ride on the spot.
🚲 Bike Tour + Travel Monday, October 15, 2018

Day 2 — Madrid by Bike, Then North to Santiago

A guided ride through the heart of Madrid · evening flight to Santiago de Compostela

Seeing Madrid from the Saddle

Our second day opened with the bike tour we'd booked the evening before. It was run in English, so we could follow every word — and what a way to see a city. Over a few easy hours we covered far more ground than we ever could have on foot, with history and stories at every stop. If you're ever in Madrid, I can't recommend this kind of introduction to the city highly enough.

Bike tour group riding through central Madrid
Rolling out through the heart of Madrid with our English-speaking guide.
Cyclists on a pedestrian street in old Madrid
Pedaling down a pedestrian street in the old center.
Open-air secondhand book stalls in Madrid
The city's old open-air book stalls, stacked with secondhand finds.

The Palace, the Cathedral & Plaza Mayor

The route strung the city's landmarks together one after another. We rode toward the vast Royal Palace — once home to Spanish royalty and still used for state occasions — and pulled up beside the Almudena Cathedral next door, a building begun in the 1880s that wasn't finished and consecrated until 1993, more than a century later. Somewhere in the old town, church bells were ringing out over the rooftops as we rode past.

🎥 Church bells ringing out over the old town.
Cyclists riding toward the Royal Palace of Madrid
Heading toward the Royal Palace, its white facade closing off the end of the street.
The Almudena Cathedral in Madrid
The Almudena Cathedral, beside the Royal Palace — over a century in the making.

From there it was on to Plaza Mayor, the grand arcaded square laid out in the early 1600s under King Philip III, whose bronze statue still rides at its center. We parked the bikes along the edge and soaked it in.

Plaza Mayor in Madrid with the statue of Philip III
Plaza Mayor, with the bronze statue of Philip III at its center and our bikes parked along the edge.

El Retiro & the Puerta de Alcalá

We pedaled east into El Retiro, the enormous park that was once royal grounds and is now the city's green heart, and rolled through its formal gardens of clipped hedges and fountains.

Cyclist with a rental bike in the formal gardens of El Retiro
Doug with the rental bike among the manicured hedges of El Retiro's formal gardens.

Just beyond stood the Puerta de Alcalá, the neoclassical stone gateway finished in 1778 for King Charles III — one of Madrid's defining monuments, and older than the Arc de Triomphe in Paris.

The Puerta de Alcalá in Madrid
The Puerta de Alcalá, finished in 1778 for King Charles III.
Group selfie on the Madrid bike tour
A quick group selfie mid-tour.

Churros at San Ginés

The tour wound down with churros con chocolate at Chocolatería San Ginés, a Madrid institution that's been frying churros and pouring thick, pudding-like hot chocolate since 1894. It's a beloved Spanish ritual — part breakfast, part late-night treat — and San Ginés is one of the most famous places in the country to have it, so when in Rome… er, Madrid: Doug and I shared a plate. I'll confess I didn't enjoy them quite as much as I'd expected — and I do like chocolate — but it was worth trying the classic at such a storied spot. (We split this one evenly, for the record — how Doug handles a snack "meant to be shared" becomes its own story later, on the train back to Madrid.)

Churros con chocolate at Chocolatería San Ginés in Madrid
Churros con chocolate at Chocolatería San Ginés — a Madrid institution since 1894. Doug and I split this plate.

A Mad Dash to the Plane

With the tour done, we made our way to the airport for the short Ryanair hop up to Santiago. The check-in process was… less than efficient — it dragged on roughly five times longer than it had any right to, and by the time we were through, we were genuinely running for the gate. We made it, breathless, just in time.

A Magical Night in Santiago

We landed in Santiago de Compostela that evening and went straight out to wander the city. The old town was nearly empty, its stone streets quiet under the lamplight, and the hush made the whole place feel magical. We found our way to the great cathedral — the very spot where, the next day, my mom would walk in and finish her Camino. Seeing it lit up against the night sky, knowing what tomorrow held, gave me chills.

Mike in front of the floodlit Cathedral of Santiago de Compostela at night
In front of the Cathedral of Santiago de Compostela — where my mom would finish her Camino the next day.
Doug at the Obradoiro facade of the Santiago cathedral at night
Doug at the cathedral's floodlit Obradoiro facade.
Looking out at the floodlit Santiago cathedral across an empty square at night
Taking in the floodlit cathedral across a near-empty Praza do Obradoiro.

Dinner was unforgettable — an incredible fresh-fish feast at Casa Camilo, a Santiago institution since 1942. This corner of Galicia is famous for its seafood, and the restaurants here turn it into an art form, their windows lined with gleaming displays of fish and octopus on ice, almost too beautiful to eat. We ate well and walked it off through the silent streets.

A quiet lamplit street in Santiago's old town at night
Quiet, lamplit streets in Santiago's old town.
Stone arcades in Santiago's old town at night
The old town's stone arcades, all but empty at night.
Casa Camilo restaurant in Santiago de Compostela at night
Casa Camilo — where we had that unforgettable fish dinner, serving Santiago since 1942.

Before we turned in, I had one last check-in with my mom — and this time she could finally confirm it: she'd reach the cathedral the very next day, right on the timing she'd guessed back when we spoke during my layover. I asked her to call me the moment she arrived so I could congratulate her — which, of course, was all part of keeping the surprise: as far as she knew, I was back home waiting for that call. But now we knew exactly how it would play out. The next morning, we'd be walking out of Santiago just as she was walking toward it — and somewhere along the Camino, our paths would cross.

🥾 The Reunion Tuesday, October 16, 2018

Day 3 — The Surprise on the Camino

Walking out of Santiago to meet my mom at the end of her Camino — then back into the city together

Out of Santiago, Against the Tide

After breakfast at our hotel, Doug and I shouldered our packs and walked out of Santiago — away from the cathedral and back along the Camino. The plan was simple: walk the route in reverse until we ran into my mom coming the other way.

The farther we went, the more pilgrims we passed, all of them streaming toward the city at the end of their long journeys. We heard a dozen languages in the morning air, snippets of conversation from every corner of the world. And because we were the only two walking the wrong way, we drew some puzzled looks. More than a few people called out, helpfully, "You're going the wrong way!" At first we just answered, "We know." Later we started telling them we'd already walked the whole thing and were heading back to the start — which earned plenty of laughs, and maybe even impressed a few of them. 😄

Mike heading out of Santiago in the morning
Heading out of Santiago, against the flow of arriving pilgrims.
Galician countryside along the Camino
The city soon gave way to quiet Galician farmland.

Not far out we passed the great monument at Monte do Gozo — the "Mount of Joy," the rise where pilgrims have traditionally caught their first glimpse of the cathedral spires. This one was built for Pope John Paul II's visit in 1989.

The Monte do Gozo monument outside Santiago
The Monte do Gozo monument, built for Pope John Paul II's 1989 visit.

A Quick Briefing for Doug

About five miles out of town, I ducked off the path for a bathroom break. As I did, Doug had a small panic: he'd met my mom once before, but didn't remember exactly what she looked like anymore. So I pulled up a photo on my phone, showed him, and — fingers crossed she hadn't already slipped by — we got back on the path.

Round a Corner, and There She Was

We started walking again, came around a bend no more than two minutes later, and there she was. My mom looked up, startled, and said, "What are you doing here?!" I played it as cool as I could — "Oh, we were just out for a walk… crazy running into you out here" — as if bumping into your mother on a path in northwestern Spain were the most ordinary thing in the world.

Then we hugged, and the act fell away. She told me how, just moments before, she'd been walking with a fellow pilgrim — a fellow walker on the Camino — and talking about me. She'd been saying how much her son would love all of this, never imagining I was about to come around the next corner.

Doug had offered to video the whole thing, but the moment happened so fast and with so much genuine excitement that we didn't hit record. By the time we realized we should be filming, the initial embrace and first reactions were already over. And as we started walking back toward Santiago together, my phone had ended up buried in my pocket. That's when Doug thought the camera was off — but actually hit record. So we ended up with audio only, no video. In some ways, though, those initial reactions are worth way more than any staged re-enactment of the meeting would have been. I'm so glad we have them: the excitement in my mom's voice about her Camino journey, the joy of meeting her, and her stories about the fellow pilgrims she'd met along the way.

🎧 The reunion — audio only (the phone was in my pocket), but it's the moment itself.

Mike: "Well, you remember Doug, right?"

Mom: "Yeah. Uh, yep."

Doug: "How you doing? Buen Camino." (Good Way)

Mom: "What a surprise. It was just like... Yeah, I was just talking about you because I just took some pictures with a guy from Canada and a guy from, uh, Chile, or, uh, no Brazil. And I've been walking on the route, and I haven't seen them and they both have shin splints. So I said, 'Oh, my son would love this,' and they just parted, and here you are. Well, uh, it's been an amazing journey."

Mike: "Yeah?"

Mom: "Let me tell you."

Mike: "Oh. I've always been enjoying your pictures. I... So I've had this planned since before you, when you... I booked my trip before you left."

Mom: "Really?"

Mike: "Oh. Yeah, I said something to Doug."

Mom: "And he dragged you along?"

Doug: "I wouldn't say dragged. I volunteered."

Mike: "Oh, he volunteered. He's like, 'Can I come? That sounds so cool.'"

Doug: "I'll be your cameraman."

Mike and his mom together on the Camino
Together on the Camino at last — my mom, miles into her final day.
Selfie of Doug, Mike's mom, and Mike on the Camino
Doug, my mom, and me — all smiles a few minutes after the surprise.

Walking Back Together

We turned around and walked back toward Santiago, the three of us side by side, stopping for photos as we went.

Mike walking the Camino alongside his mom
Walking the last miles of her Camino at her side.

Back at Monte do Gozo, we stopped at the spot where two towering bronze pilgrims stand with their arms raised toward the distant cathedral — the very place where, for centuries, weary walkers have pointed and known they'd nearly made it.

Bronze pilgrim statues at Monte do Gozo pointing toward Santiago
The bronze pilgrims of Monte do Gozo, pointing the way to Santiago — my mom taking it in below.
Mike's mom at the Monte do Gozo pilgrim statues
My mom at the foot of the statues, Santiago laid out behind her.
Selfie at the Monte do Gozo pilgrim statues
Doug at the Mount of Joy before the final stretch in.
Mike and Doug at the Monte do Gozo monument
Doug and me back at the Monte do Gozo monument.

Somewhere along the way back, we crossed paths again with a fellow pilgrim my mom had befriended on her journey. She turned to him and said, in so many words, "Remember how I kept telling you my son would love this? Well — here he is." It was an emotional moment for all of us, that pilgrim included.

Into Santiago

Together we walked the last stretch into the city, retracing the final yards of her Camino. I filmed her as she came into the Praza do Obradoiro — the great square in front of the cathedral — the moment she'd walked some 500 miles to reach.

🎥 My mom walking into the Praza do Obradoiro — the end of her Camino.
Mike's mom in front of the Santiago cathedral, her Camino complete
My mom in the Praza do Obradoiro, her Camino complete — 500 miles on her own two feet.

From there we went to the Pilgrim's Office (the Oficina del Peregrino), where my mom would receive her Compostela — the official certificate of completion. While she waited in line, Doug and I noticed a tourist information office right next door and ducked in to figure out what to do with the rest of our time in Spain. That's where the idea took hold: we'd keep walking — all the way to the coast, to the "end of the world," by way of Muxía.

🗺️ The Route — Out to Meet My Mom & Back

Out and back from Santiago — about 12 miles round trip. Interactive map powered by OpenStreetMap.

"Look Who's Here" — A Call to Dad

That afternoon, with her Camino behind her, my mom hopped on a video call with my dad back home. They talked for a moment, and then she casually turned the phone — "look who's here" — and there I was, sitting right beside her in Santiago. It took him a few seconds to register what he was seeing, and then it clicked. We had a great chat, all three of us together across the miles. And it was right about then that my dad finally understood why I'd been too "busy" to make that family dinner the weekend I left — I'd been on my way to Spain the whole time.

An Evening to Remember

That night we had a wonderful dinner with my mom and a friend who'd walked part of the Camino alongside her. What a day it had been. I was so proud of my mom — 500 miles, on her own two feet — and prouder still of who she'd become along the way. The Camino changed her, in so many good ways. What an accomplishment.

After dinner, Doug and I walked around Santiago and bumped into some local ladies who got to know Doug a bit better. LOL

Mike with the Las Dos Marías statues in Santiago's Alameda park at night
Clowning around that evening with Las Dos Marías, the beloved statues in Santiago's Alameda park.
Part Two · Our Own Camino

Our Camino — to the End of the World

Up to this point the trip had been about getting to Santiago and surprising my mom at the finish of her pilgrimage. Now it was our turn. With her Camino complete, Doug and I shouldered our packs and set off on a short Camino of our own — west from Santiago to the Atlantic coast at Muxía and Finisterre, the rugged cape medieval pilgrims believed was the literal end of the world. Our day count starts over here, at Day 1 of our walk.

🗺️ Our Route to the Coast — Day by Day

Each stage of our walk west from Santiago, one color per day — all the way out to Km 0 at Cabo Fisterra, the end of the world.

Our Camino Day 1 Day 2 Day 3 Day 4 Day 5
🐚 Our Camino · Day 1 Wednesday, October 17, 2018

Camino Day 1 — Santiago to Negreira

Out of Santiago on the Camino Finisterre · hórreos, Ponte Maceira & a light Galician drizzle · 13.37 mi

Setting Out

We started our Camino under some threatening skies, but we were excited about the journey ahead. First we had to walk out of town on sidewalks. Leaving the church where my mom had just finished her pilgrimage the day before felt special — Doug and I were a little anxious about doing our own journey, but ready to see where it would take us.

While we enjoyed the streets of Santiago, we were happy when we encountered some paths through the woods — but not before looking back on Santiago in the distance, getting smaller behind us.

Doug walking a wooded dirt path leaving Santiago
Out of the city at last — Doug on one of the wooded paths we were so glad to reach.
Looking back at Santiago in the distance, its cathedral spires on the horizon
Looking back: Santiago and its cathedral spires growing smaller on the horizon behind us.

Hórreos: The Corn Cribs of Galicia

As we walked, we began to notice the distinctive wooden buildings with slanted roofs scattered throughout the landscape — hórreos. These charming structures are traditional Galician corn cribs, built up on stone pillars to elevate the stored grain and protect it from rodents and moisture. We'd first learned what they were on the walk out to meet my mom, and we would go on to see a countless number of them along our journey, each one a reminder of rural Galician farming traditions.

Inside an hórreo, stacked with drying corn cobs
A look inside one of the hórreos — stacked with drying corn, exactly what they were built to keep safe.

The Path & the Landmarks

The Camino de Finisterre-Muxía is marked with distinctive signs along the way, with distance indicators that help pilgrims gauge their progress. We walked cobblestone paths that felt historic beneath our feet — some sections dated back centuries, the worn stones showing generations of pilgrims who had walked before us. That sense of history made the journey feel even more meaningful.

A Camino waymarker stone with the yellow scallop shell and arrow
A Camino waymarker — the scallop shell and yellow arrow, with the distance counter, pointing us on toward the coast.
A cobblestone Camino path through green Galician woods
The historic cobblestones, worn smooth by centuries of pilgrims before us.
Doug walking a cobblestone path through autumn woods
Doug on the same stretch — the kind of path that made the history feel real underfoot.

As we continued, we came upon what we believed to be an old medieval bridge spanning a river. We later discovered it was Ponte Maceira (A Ponte Vella), a stunning 13th-century stone bridge that crosses the Tambre River in Galicia. It's one of the most iconic landmarks along the Camino de Finisterre-Muxía, a symbolic gateway on the scenic extension of the Camino for pilgrims continuing past the Santiago cathedral toward the Atlantic coast. The blue tile on the left wall features the classic yellow scallop shell and arrow, guiding walkers along the path — a symbol you see throughout the entire Camino.

Doug in a rain jacket crossing the medieval Ponte Maceira bridge in the rain
Our own crossing — Doug heading over the 13th-century Ponte Maceira in the drizzle, the village of Ponte Maceira beyond.
🎥 Crossing Ponte Maceira — take two (more on that below).

While filming Doug on the bridge, I forgot to hit record — the second time that happened on this trip! So we had to do a take two, as you can hear referenced in the video audio.

Ponte Maceira medieval stone bridge in better weather
Ponte Maceira on a clearer day than we had — the 13th-century medieval stone bridge, with the distinctive blue tile marker on the left wall. (Photo from a tourist site.)

A Light Drizzle & a Short Day

We did catch some rain as the day went on, but it was more of a light drizzle — refreshing rather than dampening our spirits. It was a short walk today at 13.37 miles, and we didn't take a bunch of photos because of the rain, but that didn't diminish the experience. The misty conditions gave the landscape a mystical quality that felt right for a pilgrimage.

Doug walking a country road in a rain jacket under grey skies
The day's light drizzle — enough for rain jackets, not enough to dampen the mood.

Arrival & Rest

We arrived in town in time for lunch, then spent the rest of the afternoon walking around, trying to dry out our clothing. The hotel had no air conditioning, and with it so humid both inside and out, even the dry clothes we had with us turned a bit damp overnight — a minor inconvenience on a pilgrimage.

We had dinner at the hotel, enjoying a pilgrim meal: for €10 each you get two courses, a simple dessert, and a beverage. When we ordered wine, we figured they'd give us a small glass — instead we were handed an entire bottle. Our first day on our own Camino was complete. Tomorrow would be a bigger mileage day.

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Santiago cathedral under overcast morning skies
Doug walking out of Santiago
Avenue of grand old trees on the Camino
Mike looking back toward Santiago
Looking back at Santiago on the horizon
Selfie with Doug on a wooded path
Sunken fern-lined Camino path
Doug walking through a granite Galician village
Misty road with a blue house and pilgrims ahead
Doug on a cobblestone path through the woods
River weir beside Ponte Maceira in the mist
🐚 Our Camino · Day 2 Thursday, October 18, 2018

Camino Day 2 — Negreira to Olveiroa

The long stage of the Camino Finisterre · an early start out of Negreira · 22.06 mi

Day 2 was the big one — a 22-mile push from Negreira west to Olveiroa, the longest single stage of our walk and nearly double the day before. We set out early, well before seven, to give ourselves the daylight for it, and settled in for a long, rewarding day on the Camino.

Doug walking out of Negreira at dawn past a crenellated stone pazo
Setting out at first light — Doug heading out of Negreira past the medieval Pazo do Cotón, its battlements still in shadow.

Beautiful, Varied Scenery — and a Lot of Pavement

The scenery was beautiful and constantly changing, one of the things that made the long distance fly by. The trade-off was the surface: a good stretch of the day was spent on road or paved surfaces rather than soft trail. What we enjoyed most were the sections that got us off the pavement — the dirt trails and gravel paths, and especially the hilly Galician countryside, which was our favorite part of the whole day.

Doug on a dirt woodland trail under oak trees in the morning light
The stretches we loved most — soft dirt trail under the oaks in the early morning.
A gravel Camino path running through rolling green countryside
A gravel path unspooling through the rolling Galician countryside — exactly the kind of walking we came for.
Doug walking a paved lane below a ridge lined with wind turbines
The other side of the day — pavement past the fields, with a line of wind turbines marching along the ridge above.
Doug on a paved country road with green hills and a big cloudy sky ahead
More road walking, but with a view like this ahead it was hard to complain — the hills opening up under a big Galician sky.
A gravel track climbing a bare hill under dramatic clouds
The hilly countryside was our favorite — a gravel track climbing over the crest under a sky full of weather.
Mike and Doug taking a selfie at a hilltop viewpoint over the countryside
Doug and me at a high point along the way, the whole countryside rolling away behind us.
Sweeping panorama of the Galician countryside from a hilltop on the Camino
The reward for the climb — a sweeping panorama over Galicia from that same hilltop.

Fellow Pilgrims on the Way

We weren't alone out there — Day 2 brought a lot of pilgrims onto the trail, and it was one of the real pleasures of the day. Being around other walkers, falling into step with people for a while and chatting as we went, gave the miles a sociable rhythm and reminded us we were all sharing the same road to the coast.

Doug and several other pilgrims with packs walking along a country road
Rarely on our own for long — Doug and a string of fellow pilgrims strung out along the road ahead.

Sore Feet & a Lesson in Footwear

By the end of the day, we both had sore feet — 22 miles with so much of it on hard pavement will do that. In hindsight, trail runners or other cushioned shoes would have been a better choice for this particular section than what we had on. But sore feet and all, we really enjoyed the day: the varied scenery, the hilly countryside, the company on the trail, and the whole Camino experience made it one to remember.

Doug walking a gravel ridge path with sweeping views of distant hills and wind turbines
Late in the day, still logging miles — Doug on a gravel ridge with the hills and distant wind farms stretching to the horizon.

Arrival in Olveiroa

After twenty-two miles, the sign we'd been waiting for: OLVEIROA. Rolling into the little stone village at the end of such a long day felt like a real accomplishment. Like the night before, dinner was the classic menú peregrino — the €10 pilgrim menu you see advertised on boards all along the Camino — and it was more than earned.

Mike and Doug taking a selfie at the OLVEIROA village sign
Made it — Doug and me at the OLVEIROA sign, 22 miles behind us.
Casa Loncho bar-restaurante sign advertising a 10 euro menú peregrino in Olveiroa
Dinner sorted — a village bar-restaurante with the €10 menú peregrino out front, exactly what a long day calls for.
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Paved lane past a stone building with countryside views and a pilgrim ahead
Gravel path through eucalyptus woods with a Camino waymarker stone
Doug on a broad gravel track with a distant view over the hills
🐚 Our Camino · Day 3 Friday, October 19, 2018

Camino Day 3 — Olveiroa to Muxía

The last push to the Atlantic · the Fisterra–Muxía fork · the coast at Km 0 · 19.94 mi

This was the day the walk reached the ocean. Just under twenty miles from Olveiroa out to Muxía, the little town on the wild Costa da Morte (the "Coast of Death") — one of the two places where the Camino meets the Atlantic. It's not the finish for us, though: Finisterre, the fabled "end of the world," still lay ahead. We set out from Olveiroa around seven and wouldn't stand at the ocean until mid-afternoon.

Setting Out from Olveiroa

We left in the half-light and climbed straight into it — tall eucalyptus woods first, then up onto open, scrubby ridges where lines of wind turbines turned slowly against a moody morning sky. It was atmospheric walking, the kind that makes an early start worth it.

A stand of tall eucalyptus trees along the Camino in the early morning
Into the eucalyptus first thing — the pale trunks glowing in the early light out of Olveiroa.
Wind turbines on a scrubby ridge under a moody morning sky
Up onto the ridges, wind turbines turning over the heath — the coast's steady breezes put to work.

The Fork in the Road: Fisterra or Muxía

Early in the day we reached the split we'd been reading about. At the roundabout above the town of Hospital, the Camino Finisterre divides: one arm bends south to Fisterra (Finisterre), the other northwest to Muxía. A big yellow board lays out both options, and two waymarker pillars stand side by side — a yellow arrow left for Fisterra, a yellow arrow right for Muxía. We went right, toward Muxía.

A large yellow Camino information board titled Fisterra - Muxía showing the route split
The decision, spelled out: the "Fisterra–Muxía" board at the Hospital fork, with the distances to each coast.
Mike leaning between two Camino waymarker pillars, one arrow pointing left to Fisterra and one right to Muxía
Two stones, two directions — left to Fisterra, right to Muxía. We chose right.

From what we could see, we were the only pilgrims heading to Muxía that morning — and we didn't cross paths with another one the rest of the day. After the crowds of the days before, having the trail entirely to ourselves suited us just fine.

Mike pausing on a gravel ridge path with a peaked hill and pilgrims in the distance
On our own and glad of it — the trail rolling on toward the coast under big Galician skies.

Varied Ground, and a Freshening Wind

The terrain stayed varied and interesting the whole way — eucalyptus and pine woods, old dry-stone-walled lanes, granite hórreos standing over the valleys, and open ridgelines. The nearer we got to Muxía, the more the sea breezes picked up, until you could feel the Atlantic ahead before you could see it.

A dirt Camino path lined with old dry-stone walls through eucalyptus woods
Old walled lanes through the woods — dry-stone walls worn soft with moss and time.
A granite hórreo with a cross beside an old stone house overlooking a green valley
A classic Galician hórreo — the raised granite granary — keeping watch over a patchwork valley.
First view of the Atlantic and the ría beyond the pine woods on the descent to Muxía
And then, through the pines — the Atlantic at last, with Muxía's ría opening up below.

Into Muxía — A Solemn Welcome

A long wooden boardwalk carried us the last stretch across the dunes and into town. Muxía had a solemn feel that afternoon — gray, cooler, the wind up and the sea rough against the rocks. But it was genuinely exciting to arrive, to have walked the whole way from Santiago to the edge of the ocean. We dropped our packs and headed out to the point to see it.

A wooden boardwalk crossing coastal dunes toward the town of Muxía under a gray sky
The boardwalk into Muxía — the town out on its point, the Atlantic gray and restless beyond.
View over Muxía's houses and the rocky Atlantic coast from old stone walls
Muxía over the old walls — waves breaking on the rocks, the Costa da Morte living up to its name.
Panorama of Muxía, its bay and the surrounding hills at dusk
The whole sweep of it at dusk — town, bay, and headlands wrapped in the evening's gray.

The Stones of Muxía — A Ferida

Out on the point stands the structure we found so fascinating: two towering slabs of granite, split apart with a jagged gap running between them. It's a sculpture called A Ferida — Galician for "The Wound" — carved by the sculptor Alberto Bañuelos and raised here in 2003. It commemorates the Prestige disaster: in November 2002 the oil tanker Prestige broke apart and sank off this coast, spilling some 63,000 tonnes of heavy fuel oil and fouling the Costa da Morte in one of the worst environmental catastrophes Europe has seen. Tens of thousands of volunteers came to scrub the black oil from these rocks and beaches. The split stone is exactly that — an open wound in the granite, a scar on the land and its people.

At the foot of the monument sits a Camino waymarker reading "Km 0,000" — the Muxía branch of the Camino counts all the way down to zero right here at the water's edge. For us, though, Muxía was only the first coast: we still had Finisterre, the "end of the world," to walk to.

The tall split-granite sculpture A Ferida on the Muxía coast, with a Camino marker at its base
A Ferida — "The Wound" — the split granite monument to the Prestige oil spill, standing at the ocean's edge.
A Ferida sculpture with the Km 0,000 Camino waymarker at its base beside the sea
At its base, the "Km 0,000" stone — where the Muxía branch of the Camino meets the Atlantic.

The Sanctuary of the Virgin of the Boat

Beside the monument, right on the rocks, stands the Santuario da Virxe da Barca — the Sanctuary of Our Lady of the Boat. Its legend gives the place its name: the Virgin Mary is said to have come to this shore in a stone boat to encourage the Apostle St. James as he preached across Galicia. The great flat rocks scattered along the shoreline are held to be the remains of that boat — the Pedra de Abalar (the hull, a "rocking stone" that shifts underfoot) and the Pedra dos Cadrís (the sail, with a hollow pilgrims crawl beneath for healing). The present Baroque church was built in the 1700s, and it remains one of Galicia's most important Marian pilgrimage sites. A lightning strike gutted the interior on Christmas Day 2013; it was carefully restored, and the gilded altarpiece inside — where the Virgin sits above a small stone boat — glows again as it did before.

If the setting looks familiar, it may be from the movies: Muxía and this sanctuary feature in The Way (2010). In the film's final scenes, Martin Sheen's character walks on past Santiago to this very coast to scatter the last of his son's ashes — the final stop of his journey. Ours wasn't over yet, though: the "end of the world" at Finisterre still lay ahead of us.

The Santuario da Virxe da Barca, a Baroque stone church with twin bell towers, on the rocky Muxía coast
The Santuario da Virxe da Barca, planted on the rocks at the ocean's edge — the church from The Way.
The gilded Baroque altarpiece inside the sanctuary, the Virgin set above a small stone boat
Inside — the restored gilded altarpiece, the Virgin raised above her little stone boat.
The lighthouse on the rocky point at Muxía with dry-stone walls and the Atlantic beyond
The little lighthouse on the point, dry-stone walls running down to the surf — the edge of the "Coast of Death."

A Walk Around Town, and a Well-Earned Beer

After checking into our accommodations, we set off on a loop around Muxía to stretch the legs and take it all in — the harbor, the old streets, the coast. Before long we found a bar open, settled in for some food and a cold beer, and toasted a very good day's walk to the sea.

Our evening loop around Muxía — about 1.9 miles, harbor to point and back.

The Muxiana — Proof We Reached the Coast

Just as pilgrims who reach Santiago earn the Compostela, those who walk on to the Atlantic can claim a certificate for each coast they reach. For completing the walk to the Santuario da Barca in Muxía, we were awarded the Muxiana — dated the very day we arrived, 19 October 2018. Its words honor "those pilgrims who choose the Sanctuary of the Boat as the end of their long walk." (Finisterre — and its own certificate — was still to come.)

The Muxiana certificate — Michael Vanderslice, Muxía, 19 October 2018
The Muxiana — our certificate for reaching Muxía, "Fin da Ruta Xacobea," dated the day we walked in.
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Gravel path toward a ridge of wind turbines at dawn
Forested hills and a distant peak in morning light
Mike passing the Albergue-Bar O Logoso
Mike on a leaf-strewn woodland path with dry-stone walls
Cobbled village lane past a cemetery
Ornate stone crosses along a church roofline
Coastal dry-stone-walled terraces above Muxía
Doug on a stone wall at the Muxía point with the sea behind
🐚 Our Camino · Day 4 Saturday, October 20, 2018

Camino Day 4 — Muxía to Finisterre

Sunny skies at last · a coast-or-inland fork · the "Caribbean" of the Atlantic · 18.02 mi

With Muxía behind us, we set off for Finisterre. We'd heard this stage had a steep climb and very few services along the way — but we also had something we hadn't the day before: sunny skies. In the good light, Muxía felt like it had a better vibe than the gray afternoon we'd arrived in.

A Sunnier Muxía, and a Slow Start

We were in no hurry to leave. We took our time getting out of town — stopping for a few photos, and even wandering down onto the beach a little, glad to get off the road and feel the sand for a bit before the long day ahead.

Morning view of the Muxía coast and town from our room, warm light on the water
The view that sent us off — Muxía and its coast from our room, the sun finally out over the Atlantic.
Rocky boulder beach on the edge of Muxía in the early morning, houses on the point beyond
Down onto the rocks at the edge of town — waves breaking, the last houses of Muxía catching the early sun.
A granite Camino waymarker reading A FISTERRA with a yellow arrow beside the shore
The morning's marching orders, carved in granite: A FISTERRA — on to the end of the world.

The Climb We'd Been Warned About

Shortly out of town, the uphill began — the steep climb everyone had told us about. But we'd spent our share of days hiking in and out of the Grand Canyon, and by that measure this was nothing. It turned out to be far less punishing than we'd been led to believe.

Doug pausing at a guardrail on the coast road above a bay, a green headland behind him
Doug taking it in on the way up — the coast road climbing above the bay, the Atlantic spread out behind.
A gravel and dirt track climbing into tall eucalyptus woods, pilgrims small in the distance
The track tipping up into the eucalyptus — the "brutal" climb that, after the Grand Canyon, barely registered.

A Fork in the Trail: Coast or Inland

Partway along, we reached a point where the trail split — you could follow the coast or stay inland. The inland route was shorter, and Doug was battling a few blisters from the past two long days, so he chose the inland path. I took the coastal one, and we agreed to meet back up where the two rejoined.

The Coast That Looks Like the Caribbean

I'm so glad I did — the coastal route was absolutely stunning. To this day, people who see my photos of this stretch assume it's the Caribbean, or somewhere tropical: turquoise water, pale sand, the works. But this is the Atlantic, on the wild edge of Galicia. I was sorely tempted to head down and take a dip — I still wish I had — but I didn't want to leave Doug waiting too long. After the beach, the path turned up into the woods onto a lovely bit of hiking trail, and I followed it until I met back up with Doug right where the two routes came together again.

🎥 Rubbing it in a little — telling Doug exactly what he's missing out on by taking the inland route.
A coast road curving above a turquoise bay with a long pale-sand beach and breaking surf
The coast road bending above the water — turquoise shallows, white surf, an empty ribbon of sand.
Clear turquoise water over dark rocks and kelp along a wide Galician beach
Water so clear you can read the rocks and kelp right through it. Tell me this looks like the Atlantic.
Panorama of a curving turquoise cove with pale sand, rocky islets and wind turbines on the hills
The whole cove in one sweep — islets, a perfect crescent of sand, and the wind turbines that give this coast away as Galicia.
Mike in a cap and sunglasses taking a selfie above the turquoise beach
Proof I was actually there — and yes, that really is the wild Costa da Morte behind me, not the tropics.
A pine-needle-covered trail winding up through a shady pine forest lined with ferns
Then up off the beach into the pines — a soft, fern-lined trail carrying me back toward Doug and the inland route.
My coastal route (GPS track) Doug's road route (approximate)

Into Finisterre — Fish, and the Cape Can Wait

We made it into Finisterre, stopping at a cool little shop to grab something to drink and a snack — a wonderfully ramshackle, driftwood-decked donativo place perched above the trail, more art project than store. But the walk out to the "end of the world" itself — the cape, the lighthouse, and the Km 0 marker at the tip of the land — would keep until the next day. We'd earned a night off: we spent the evening in town and treated ourselves to a great fish dinner, the cape waiting for us in the morning.

A quirky driftwood-decorated stone rest stop above the trail with hand-painted signs reading Home Hogar
The "cool little shop" — a driftwood-and-stone donativo hideaway above the path, signs reading Home · Hogar. Impossible to walk past.
Finisterre's harbor full of colorful fishing boats, the cape and mountains across the bay
Into Finisterre at last — the harbor crowded with fishing boats, and across the water the cape we'd walk out to in the morning.
A plate of grilled white fish over sliced potatoes with parsley oil
Dinner, well earned — fresh Galician fish over potatoes. A fitting reward for the day, and a toast to the cape ahead.
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Coast road above a rocky headland with crashing waves
Mike posing at a guardrail with the coast and a headland behind
Stone-paved path through a leafy green tunnel
Granite hórreo beside a blue hydrangea in a garden
Turquoise lagoon behind sand dunes with hills beyond
Clifftop coastal path with gorse and sunlit sea
Rugged coastline and headlands over a sparkling sea
A lone pine tree above a rocky coastline
Sunlit dirt forest road through pine woods
Hilltop view over pine forest to a beach and the Finisterre cape
First view of Finisterre town and bay with the cape beyond
🐚 Our Camino · Day 5 Sunday, October 21, 2018

Camino Day 5 — The End of the World

The short walk out to Cabo Fisterra · Km 0 & the lighthouse · sitting at the edge of the earth · our certificate by the harbor

We'd saved the best for last. Rather than rush out to the cape the evening we arrived, we gave it its own morning — the short walk from town out to Cabo Fisterra, the lighthouse, and the Km 0 stone that marks the true end of the Camino. It's only a couple of miles from Finisterre town to the point, an easy stroll after everything that had come before.

The final walk out to Km 0 (approximate)

That last stretch — from Finisterre town south along the cape to the Faro de Fisterra and the Km 0 stone at the tip of the land.

Km 0 — The End of the Camino

There's a moment every pilgrim on this route walks toward: the granite marker at the tip of the cape, stamped Km 0,000. After Santiago, after Muxía, after the long coast road, this little stone is where the mileage finally runs out. We took our time with it — a few photos at the marker, the Faro de Fisterra standing white behind us, the Atlantic falling away on every side.

Mike and Doug crouched on either side of the Km 0,000 Camino marker at Cape Finisterre
Km 0,000 — the end of the road. Me on the left, Doug on the right, and the scallop shell that had pointed the way the whole trip.
Doug crouched beside the Km 0,000 marker with the Finisterre lighthouse behind
Doug at the marker, the Faro de Fisterra rising behind — the lighthouse at the end of the earth.
Mike leaning on the Km 0,000 marker with the Atlantic and cliffs behind
My turn at Km 0 — nothing but ocean past the edge of the cliff.

What They Believed Was the Edge of the Earth

The name says it plainly: Finisterre — from the Latin finis terrae, "the end of the earth." To the Romans and to medieval Europe, this rocky cape was the westernmost edge of the known world; beyond it lay nothing but the great, uncharted ocean. People came here to watch the sun sink straight into the Atlantic and believed they were standing at the very rim of the world, where the land simply stopped. Long before the Christian pilgrimage, it was a sacred place of sun worship — the Romans were said to have raised an Ara Solis, an altar to the sun, out on these rocks — and the wild, wreck-strewn shoreline all around earned its name: the Costa da Morte, the Coast of Death. Even today the tradition holds that a pilgrim's journey isn't truly finished in Santiago, but out here, watching the sun go down at the end of the world.

Sitting at the Edge

So that's what we did — we found a spot on the cliff's edge and just sat for a long while, taking it in. No more trail to walk, no town to reach by dark, nowhere to be. Just the two of us, the wind, and the whole Atlantic spread out below. After days of always moving, it was the first time we could simply stop and let it all land.

Doug sitting on a rock at the cliff's edge above the rugged Finisterre coast
Doug out on the edge, the rugged cape dropping away to the surf far below.
Vivid blue Atlantic and green cliffs at Cape Finisterre
The view we sat with — green cliffs, a lone islet, and the deep blue Atlantic running clear out to the horizon.
Stone cruceiro cross on a boulder at Cape Finisterre, silhouetted against a dramatic sky
The stone cruceiro on the cape, sun breaking through behind it. A small brass compass is set into the ground nearby — every direction from here but west runs back across Spain.

Our Certificate by the Harbor

Back down in town, we stopped at the tourism office to collect our certificate for reaching the coast — the Fisterrana, the end-of-the-earth counterpart to the Compostela pilgrims receive in Santiago. It closed the book on our little Camino in the best way: proof, in illuminated ink, that we'd walked all the way to the end. Then we did just what you should do in a Galician fishing town — found lunch near the harbor and wandered the small streets with nowhere in particular to be.

The illuminated Fisterra certificate issued to Michael Vanderslice, dated 21/10/2018
The Fisterrana — "…chegou a estas terras da Costa da Morte e fin do Camiño Xacobeo." Fisterra, 21/10/2018.
Cover of the pilgrim credential booklet for the route to Fisterra and Muxía
The credencial — the pilgrim passport we'd had stamped town by town, all the way to the coast.
A harborside lunch plate of grilled chicken with peppers, fries, and a tomato salad
Lunch by the harbor — nothing fancy, and perfect for it.

A Quiet Evening by the Harbor

Doug's feet had more than earned a rest, so he stayed in that afternoon while I headed back out on my own as the day wound down. I ended up by the harbor again, the boats settled on still water, and pulled out the camera to record a few thoughts — the kind of thing you only really say out loud once a long walk is finally behind you.

🎥 A few thoughts down by the Finisterre harbor, at the end of the whole journey.
Finisterre's fishing harbor in the evening, boats moored on calm water with green hills beyond
Finisterre's harbor in the evening light — where the whole thing quietly wound down.
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Selfie of Mike and Doug at the Km 0 marker
Doug looking out to sea by a stone cross at the cape
Stone cross on the clifftop above a sunlit sea
Doug standing beside the stone cruceiro at Cape Finisterre
Registration page of the pilgrim credential
A page of pilgrim credential stamps
Pilgrim credential stamps including the Fisterra end-of-route seal
Route map of the Camino from Santiago to Fisterra and Muxía
Credential information page about the Fisterrana and Muxiana certificates
Epilogue · The Journey Home

The Long Way Home

The walking was done, but the trip wasn't — and some of what I remember most fondly happened on the way back, with a pack on my shoulders and nowhere left to walk to.

Back to Santiago

The next morning we caught a bus back to Santiago and spent a little while wandering the city again, in no hurry at all. At some point Doug bought a candy bar — one of the big ones — for us to share on the long train ride ahead. We tucked it away and made our way to the train station. Remember the candy bar. It matters later.

A Stranger in the Train Station

While we waited, I got to talking with a young American woman — mid-twenties, easy to talk to. She'd just accepted a new job — near the town I grew up in, of all places — and before it started she'd carved out this stretch of time to walk the Camino. She told me about her sister, who'd walked the French Way a few years earlier and met the man who would become her husband along the route — a Spaniard. They're married now and living in Spain. It's the kind of story that sounds made up, except it isn't.

There was a quiet wistfulness under it, though. For all that she'd loved her own Camino — and she clearly had — I got the sense she hadn't quite found the thing she'd half-hoped to find out there. Then she asked about ours, and I told her how I'd flown all this way to surprise my mom at the finish of her pilgrimage. That did it — her eyes welled up. She gave me a hug and told me how wonderful it was that I'd come so far to be there for something so big for my mom, almost like she wanted to say thank you on my mom's behalf. Her emotions were right at the surface, and my story clearly touched something. Nothing more to it than that — just two travelers trading stories in a train station, and one of those stories landing at exactly the right moment. It's funny how the small, unplanned exchanges so often turn out to be the ones you remember most.

The Candy Bar

The train back to Madrid was long — eight hours or so — and wonderfully relaxing. I'm fairly sure Doug and I both dozed off for a good chunk of it. When I woke up I was a little peckish and thought, ah yes, the candy bar. So I asked Doug where it was. He flashed me this sheepish little grin and confessed he'd eaten it. The whole thing. Solo. LOL. Reader, I have never let him forget it — and I never will. To this day it comes up all the time, and I make a big show of buying chocolate and sharing it with him, every single time, just to keep the record straight. 😄 (Fair warning: the Great Candy Bar Betrayal turns up in a few of my other stories too.)

One Last Night in Madrid

Back where the whole trip had started, we had our final dinner in Madrid and took one last walk through the city — an easy, fitting way to wind it all down before flying home to the States.

Shut the Door Behind You

Well — almost. Our Madrid apartment was a beauty: big, gracious, and set in one of those grand old buildings with the giant, heavy skeleton keys you could just about club someone with. On our way out, the host had told us not to fuss with the keys — just leave them inside and pull the door shut behind us. Simple enough… except this was one of those old buildings where you need a key to get out through the main doors to the street, too. And ours were now locked safely inside the apartment.

So there we were, trapped in the entryway with our flight clock ticking. We spent a good twenty or thirty minutes hunting for another way out, trying to get back into the apartment, and turning over every other option we could think of — every one a dead end. In the end, brute force won the day: we wrestled the two big front doors open just wide enough to slip past the latch and squeeze out onto the street. Free at last — and now properly behind schedule. We made a quick dash to catch our train to the airport, and somehow rolled up with just enough time to spare.

It was, start to finish, an amazing trip. But the thing that made it mean as much as it did wasn't the coast or the cathedrals or the miles — it was the reason we'd come in the first place, and my mom's quiet, hard-won triumph at the end of her own long walk. That's what we carried home.

And here's the part I keep coming back to: without her journey, Doug and I would never have had ours. Her Camino is the only reason we were there at all — and it opened the door to an adventure of our own, and to memories the two of us will never forget. One good thing has a way of leading to another.

I don't think this will be my last Camino, either. One day I hope to walk a few of them with my wife. And Doug? He's already floated doing the next one by bike — which, honestly, is just him quoting The Way almost word for word, the same thought that crossed our minds more than once out on the trail: "What, you can do this on a bike? Why the hell are we walking?"


Buen Camino

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